Small steps are the key to success. How many times have told yourself “Today’s the day! Today I’m doing it all different!”? Then, with the best of intentions you pushed yourself beyond your comfort zone and right over the cliff into misery and pain, physically and mentally. I know, I’ve been there, and the road to recovery meant crying into a large pizza and hating any and all forms of exercise.

Ok maybe that was a bit dramatic but if you’ve ever started over, you know what I’m talking about. We are our own worst enemies. Not to worry! By following these 3 easy, safe and effective tips to total health and wellness, this will be your last do over.

Step one: Look in the mirror and say “Hi, nice to see you. I love you already. Now, what do you need?” This may sound corny but it sets the foundation for accepting you as you! Having some sense of self awareness and self acceptance is a huge piece to knowing how to move forward, in a way that’s unique to you. Nobody knows you better than you do, after all, so take that step in empowering yourself. Hearing the answers out loud can bring a tremendous shift in thinking. It doesn’t matter if you say 10 things or just 1 thing. Be open and honest with yourself about where you are on your journey and where you’d like to be. Now, go grab a pen and notebook and write down what your answers are to yourself.

Step two: Speaking of notebooks, did you know that studies show that by keeping a health journal you are more likely to engage and stick with healthy lifestyle patterns? Journaling helps you prioritize your needs and concerns and opens the door for positive reinforcement. Writing things down on paper gives you something tangible to use as a comparative analysis. I really enjoy going through my old health journals from 5 + years ago. Even last year’s journal had some interesting “Leslie points”. It makes me smile to see how I’ve worked through my own challenges and how I’ve been able to form new and long lasting healthy lifestyle habits.

Step 3: Surround yourself with like minded people. It’s easier than you think and you don’t necessarily have to be in physical proximity to them. Scroll thorough your Facebook or Instagram friends list and note which ones are always doing things that relate to what you like. Google “healthy eating websites” or “yoga blogs” or “how to change from a couch potato into a runner”. Have fun with this! Once you find a few websites or blogs that you like, subscribe to their newsletters and follow their blogs. Don’t be shy and comment on their blog posts, you’ll most likely find that there’s a lot of people out there, just like you, with the same kinds of challenges and questions.

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